OldMan Remembers

The Oldman Remembers Dr. Hook - Silvia's Mother Said
Like most of the early songs recorded by Dr. Hook & the Medicine Show, this was written by Shel Silverstein. Silversteen was a brilliant storyteller with a vivid imagination, but this story was real. In the song, Sylvia's mother is Mrs. Avery, and while that wasn't her real last name, the rest of the story - exaggerated a bit - was true. Silversteen told in 1972 "I just changed the last name, not to protect the innocent, but because it didn't fit. It happened about eight years ago and was pretty much the way it was in the song. I called Sylvia and her mother said,'She can't talk to you.' I said, 'Why not?' Her mother said she was packing and she was leaving to get married, which was a big surprise to me. The guy was in Mexico and he was a bullfighter and a painter. At the time I thought that was like being a combination brain surgeon and encyclopedia salesman. Her mother finally let me talk to her, but her last words were, 'Shel, don't spoil it.' For about ten seconds I had this ego charge, as if I could have spoiled it. I couldn't have spoiled it with a sledge hammer."

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I'm not sure why but, Silvia's Mother really grabs my heart-strings - similarily like "Ruby, Don't Take Your Love To Town" - By Kenny Rogers.  Probably because 1972 is the year I joined the US Army and was separated from my long-time girlfriend at the time (The "Jody" effect in basic training).    The song "Cats In The Cradle" just kills me as well, although I relate it to my relationship with my three sons, it didn't really hit home until I was in my 50s.  20-20 Hindsight I suppose.
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